Thank you for saying that Ellis I thought it was just me.

I guess when you grow up with stuff like this you sort of work your way through it.

For me I am struggling, when I was given asylum in Australia it seemed laid back about religion I had no problems and much of this didn't come up. Having come out to America now I am truely struggling and I seem to offend people without intending ... there is like this untold code I am supposed to know but don't.

I am going to write a book on my experiences perhaps as a sorry to all the people I have unintendingly offended.
I believe in "Evil, Bad, Ungodly fantasy science and maths", so I am undoubtedly wrong to you.