Originally Posted By: Revlgking
ARE ALL QUESTIONS "fair game" as you say. Is it fair for us to ask one another about: Where we live, work and play? Our Birth date, our family life? Our

You didn't quite understand my idea. Those questions really are fine. You can answer with "I prefer to keep that private". I'm talking about responding to anything that might seem like a possible insult with an actual insult. Many people do this because they're deathly afraid of being insulted without fighting back. It's the shoot first, ask questions later mentality that causes many of the interpersonal problems people have.