TT said to Rev:
"I didn't say you had a problem with imagining the concept, only fitting the personally imagined concept into the reality of God as your experience."

---and whilst, in this case, I agree with the statement, I do also think that this is precisely what both believer and non-believers do by dialogue with others of different views. There will always be a gap between expectation and experience, and it is by exploring that gap that we develop our points of view. That is why it usually is best to not be too didactic.