Nice guys finish last when women are wearing ovulation goggles, say University of Texas researchers who have been investigating exactlywhy females in the most fertile phase of their menstrual cycle choose sexy, rebellious cads to pair-up with.
“Previous research has shown in the week near ovulation women become attracted to sexy, rebellious and handsome men like George Clooney or James Bond,” said lead researcher Kristina Durante. “But until now it was unclear why women would ever think it’s wise to pursue long-term relationships with these kinds of men.”
Shedding new light on this ovulation triggered delusion, Durante reports in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology that the hormones associated with ovulation influence women’s perceptions of men as potential fathers.
In the first part of Durante’s study, women viewed online dating profiles of either a sexy man or a reliable man during periods of both high and low fertility. Participants were asked to indicate the expected paternal contribution from the men if they had a child together based on how helpful the man would be caring for the infant, preparing food and contributing to household chores. Near ovulation women thought that the sexy man would contribute more to these domestic duties.
“Under the hormonal influence of ovulation, women delude themselves into thinking that the sexy bad boys will become devoted partners and better dads,” explained Durante. “When looking at the sexy cad through ovulation goggles, Mr Wrong looked exactly like Mr Right.”
“When asked about what kind of father the sexy bad boy would make if he were to have children with another woman, women were quick to point out the bad boy’s shortcomings,” said Durante. “But when it came to their own child, ovulating women believed that the charismatic and adventurous cad would be a great father to their kids.”
Durante thinks this psychological distortion could be setting some women up to choose partners who are better suited to be short-term mates. “Missing a mating opportunity with a sexy cad might be too costly for some women to pass up,” said Durante. “After all, you never know if he could be the ‘one.'”