Originally posted by TheFallibleFiend:
"Civility is not reached by punching back while waiting for the other to extend a hand in kindness."
I expect you to give the same lecture to him. I've tried to be friendly. In general I *am* friendly and civil - not because trilobyte deserves it, but because that's the sort of person I am.
Trilobyte wants the right to be obnoxious with impunity, and my response is purely disgressionary on my part - though I recognize (and have no choice but to do so) the right of the moderators to modify or delete my posts.
Indeed my comments have been, and are, for both sides of this argument. But it is the greater endeavor that resists temptation with kindness.
Daniel 4
Therefore, O king, be pleased to accept my advice: Renounce your sins by doing what is right, and your wickedness by being kind to the oppressed. It may be that then your prosperity will continue.
Proverbs 11
A kind man benefits himself, but a cruel man brings trouble on himself.
1 Thessalonians 5
Hold them all in the highest regard in love because of their work. Live in peace with each other. And we urge you, brothers, warn those who are idle, encourage the timid, help the weak, be patient with everyone. Make sure that nobody pays back wrong for wrong, but always try to be kind to each other and to everyone else.