For me alot of the answers are there I just don't like them they play with my sensibilities.

I quite liked the idea of light as a probability wave that when I measured solidified to a particle .. see I know waves can go thru 2 slits at once but particles should only go through one.

The idea a single particle can somehow split and pass through both slits but when I measure it's only one particle not two plays with my sensibility.

So I have to accept that everything I perceive is an illusion and now how deep does the hole go ... don't expect me to like this :-)

I believe in "Evil, Bad, Ungodly fantasy science and maths", so I am undoubtedly wrong to you.