There's a potential for 'normal' and 'abnormal' in everything - and in most things the potential is realised! However, let's get on with those semantics: since the word 'abnormal' has come to be associated with 'alarm' and 'anxiety', a better word is 'deviant'. So, we can talk about 'social deviations' rather than 'social abnormalities'.

"Normal is what most everyone thinks (sic) is right."

- Yes, this is the whole point. The blanket view that 'normal' = 'right' and 'deviant = wrong' is nothing less than a social disease.

"Think about it--- you are different from me and my friend, so you are abnormal- so go away or I will hurt you--- or possibly worse-- hang around and I will patronise you."

- You state the problem well. That is the common response to deviations from social norms - ethnicity and sexual orientation being the first to come to mind.


"Time is what prevents everything from happening at once" - John Wheeler