Yeah!! terry---that's exactly what I'm getting at. God is whatever you as a person believe in. I cannot tell you it is wrong because it is what you have chosen to believe. You may adhere to some religious doctrine or you may believe that your god speaks to you personally at the same time each day- that's your business.

The problem then is that on discovering my lack of belief in the supernatural religious people will often want to share their belief with me, tell me what I believe REALLY ( as Rev did) or demand I convert to their way of thinking or change my behaviour to accommodate their belief.

I do not ask this of them---why do they ask it of me?